His story is one of out a movie. While he was married to his first wife for eight years, he cheated on her notoriously. He even bought a motorcycle to impress one of his paramours. He crashed on the way to meet her one day and while juggling hospital visits between his wife and his girlfriend, he had an epiphany. Cheating is wrong and he wanted to stop. The guilt over what I was doing was what got to me the most," said Titus in an exclusive interview with Loveawake.

His subsequent divorced left him flat broke, but Titus is a tenacious entrepreneur who turned his story of heartache and pain into a thriving business. In a stroke of genius, Titus created Matt's Little Black Book, a top-secret file of 400 of Manhattan's most available bachelors. "Every guy goes through a thorough screening process," said Titus. "And they all make over a million dollars a year," he continued.

So what's Matt's advice for women on the dating scene? 1. Understand that when a man approaches a woman, his motivation is to sleep with her, initially. So never, ever sleep with a guy on the first date or the 10th one. If he sticks around, he's worth it. 2. Texting is for dummies. Don conduct your relationship over text message. Don not break-up or break a date via text. As Titus says, men love the chase. And they love it if they think they have to compete for you.

What holds a man to a relationship is not sex, contrary to popular belief. It is a mental connection that will keep him in a relationship. Connect with your man mentally and you& will have him for life. 5. If you have to worry about a guy cheating on you when you are not around, it is time to start looking for another man! Today, Matt is happily married to Emmy-winning TV producer Tamsen Fandal. We have teamed up with Matt and Tamsen to give away ten free copies of their book